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The Letdown Season 2: Delivering Babies Or A Reality Check?

Image of a mother in her child's room. From the Letdown Season 2

Note: this post contains reference to abortion and might be difficult to read.

Last year I wrote about how the Letdown Season 1 provided a reminder to us parents that we are not alone in the challenges we face.  Like many others I have chatted to about the show, I saw so many of my own experiences reflected in that first Season.

I could also make a long list of the scenes from episodes 1 and 2 of Season 2 of The Letdown, currently airing on the ABC, and add a “just like me” comment to the end of those too.

But the early episodes of Season 2 do that and so much more.

Significantly we learn that women just like us and families just like ours can face the difficult decision to terminate a pregnancy. And that women just like us and families just like ours indeed do terminate.

It provides a reminder of the diversity of our stories and challenges us to think about abortion as not just someone else’s issue. 

Audrey (Alison Bell) in Season 1 is me with my eldest (Little Mate) as a newborn: struggling to work out where I belong. Struggling to work out sleep strategies. Struggling to chart my own parenting course. And Jeremy (Brendan Cowell) is Damien: soothing, calming, understanding, supporting. At the end of Season 1, Audrey and Jeremy are us when they find out they are pregnant again and on track to have two babies under two.

Season 2 starts with the same level of familiarity. The setting is Stevie’s first birthday party:

There I am finishing a birthday cake with lashings of buttercream icing and lollies at 1am in the morning – actually it’s almost 3am and it’s Little Mate’s 5th birthday I’m cramming for – disaster struck earlier when the rocket ship of sponge rolls failed to stand vertically (yes, two cream-filled sponge rolls, one on top of the other). Not possible it turns out…

There we are considering questions about party entertainment… Sugar-filled or sugar-free baking? Alcohol for the adults (who’s party is it anyway?) For Dames’ 5th birthday, I spent weeks on the party bags, to the point where I had kilograms of soap sent from WA for me to melt and set into shapes with a plastic dinosaur inside…

There I am with visitors arriving before I’ve had a chance to shower and do my hair the way I want it…

It’s a look from the outside in and it is hilarious. It feels normal. It feels like my experience. I know it.

But while I’ve got one eye on the fun and hilarity and the trip down memory lane, the other is on Audrey: her abdomen, her demeanor, what she’s eating, what she’s saying (just a bit like the tabloids dissecting every glance, every move a couple of very famous Duchesses have made over the last few years)…

Yep, I’m looking for signs that Audrey is pregnant.

We see Audrey drinking champagne and eating what appears to be soft cheese at Stevie’s party. And I think: well the drink is okay – the contemporary guidance permits an occasional one when pregnant. That soft cheese, though Aud, I’d definitely steer clear of that.

We see a flash back to a discussion between Audrey and Jeremy about Audrey’s doctor’s appointment. With all the complications from Stevie’s birth, we learn that this pregnancy is high risk. And I think: you’ll need a highly experienced OB Audrey, love. Let me know if you need any recommendations…

Later we hear Audrey ask Jeremy: “Did we do the right thing?” and are left hanging on for episode 2. And I wonder: what “thing” was it?

As episode 2 progresses, the signs that Audrey and Jeremy have decided to terminate their pregnancy mount: Audrey donates her maternity jeans; Audrey talks about needing a distraction and is more confused and indecisive than usual; and, there’s a flashback scene involving Audrey selecting a movie that includes an abortion in the storyline.

But, honestly, for me it takes Audrey to give us the statistics – that 1 in 4 women terminate a pregnancy and the majority of those women are mothers – for the penny to really drop…

Followed by a denial from Audrey though, there’s a small part of me that still thinks perhaps that penny’s still wobbling on the edge…

Why does it take so much for me to see it?

I think it’s because choosing to have an abortion sits uncomfortably: not with my beliefs necessarily, but with my experience. I see Audrey just like me and Audrey and Jeremy just like us. And yet, we have never considered an abortion. And I have never personally known anyone to have had an abortion either.

And that is the absolute genius of The Letdown in the first two episodes of Season 2 – it demonstrates to us that people (and families), including people (and families) like us, terminate pregnancies.

We aren’t told what to think about abortion in The Letdown (indeed the program offers a variety of viewpoints and perspectives). Instead we are encouraged to think about it and to think about it not just as someone else’s issue.
The Letdown Season 2 is currently on ABC – 9pm Wednesdays. All 6 episodes are also available now on iview.


I hope it is entertaining but also thought-provoking viewing for you. I would love to know what you think and whether in viewing it you shared my experience.

Lauren x

2 thoughts on “The Letdown Season 2: Delivering Babies Or A Reality Check?

  1. I agree with everything you said. I just discovered the Letdown and watched both seasons straightaway. In the part about abortion, you say you have don’t know anyone who has had an abortion. But the truth is you don’t know that. Having an abortion is a difficult decision and many women don’t talk about it even with close friends and family members. The character Audrey took almost one year to tell her “mom group therapist”, mother and friends. Some women never say anything, but we should because it is so difficult to go through and so lonely as well. Like you said this show is great because it did not tell us how to feel about abortion, but to make us think about it differently.

    1. Thanks so much for your comment Ludmilla! And you’re absolutely correct, abortion is so often not talked about and hiding it must just add to the pain and the isolation as well.
      Hope you loved the series. I certainly did!

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